To feel genuine non-faked compassion @SomeDudeStoleMyToast You are the first person i come too because your the best at it in this wiki.
The best way I can describe compassion is to stop and think (like you would do for just about any situation that takes any brain power).
If you've been in a situation like that, and you didn't get help, you'd want to be there for them, right? You'd want to make sure they feel better than you did then, when you experienced it.
There's no actual way to describe what empathy and compassion are, it's something you have to experience. Every day, so many people can't feel either emotion, and that's due to the fact that they were exposed to some of the most downright awful stuff as a child.
Therefore, they become shut-ins, not able to express themselves fully. They lose themselves from said experiences.
You'd have to go through and suffer what the other person is doing in order to fully grasp what concept human acceptance and compassion are. It's just like envy, love, hatred: It's an experience.
Well, as a kid i really didn't have a chance to go through any of that all i really knew was "Don't do things incorrectly, please others, and making mistakes make you useless". I was the 2nd best in my class (Still am) but didn't have friends at the time.
When i entered my Teen days i started to try to open up to people and that's when i got my first boyfriend after a year or so i learned said boyfriend was cheating on me, and before i could even confront him about that i got insulted in the worst way possible not even directly i got multiple screenshots on his opinion on me, that still hurt me to this day,
That experience made me hate relationships for a long time, i got into multiple of them just for the fun of having peoples heart break for my enjoyment.
What do you think?